The era of vague, undefined romantic connections—popularly known as situationships—appears to be losing its appeal among Indian daters. A recent consumer study by Indian dating app QuackQuack reveals a significant shift in dating behaviour, with nearly 3 in 5 daters above the age of 25 actively seeking clarity early in a connection to avoid emotional ambiguity and unintentional attachment.

The study, conducted among 11,959 daters aged 25–35 across Tier 1, 2, and 3 cities, indicates that modern dating is becoming more intentional, transparent, and emotionally aware. While situationships once thrived on low-pressure connections and “let’s see where it goes” dynamics, daters today are increasingly prioritising emotional clarity and aligned expectations.

Survey findings show that 2 in 10 couples were emotionally exclusive but hesitant to commit, often due to fear of labels or long-term expectations. However, this reluctance is now giving way to maturity and decisiveness. Nearly 41% of respondents acknowledged that while situationships may have seemed like a trial phase, the emotional cost of staying stuck without direction outweighs any perceived benefits.

Commenting on the findings, Ravi Mittal, Founder & CEO of QuackQuack, said,

“We’ve seen the rise of situationships, and now we’re clearly witnessing their decline. As a dating platform, our goal has always been to help users find meaningful connections—romantic or friendly. Situationships often end with at least one person getting hurt. It’s encouraging to see daters recognising this and consciously choosing clarity over confusion. Match quality is improving, and so is the value users place on genuine interactions.”

Situationship Burnout Replaces the Thrill

Across cities and demographics, daters reported growing emotional fatigue associated with undefined relationships. The uncertainty, mixed signals, and inability to set boundaries were cited as emotionally draining.

Amrita (27), from Delhi, shared,

“The worst part of being in a situationship was not being able to confront him when I felt insecure. That uncertainty weighed heavily on me. I now believe clarity and commitment—even if it takes longer—are far healthier than staying in emotional limbo.”

‘Time-Pass’ Dating Losing Relevance

While dating in one’s early 20s is often exploratory, respondents above 25 expressed a growing awareness of time and emotional investment. 36% of daters aged 28–35 said they are now more intentional about whom they spend their limited time with.

The study also revealed that 49% of women and 44% of men are less willing to invest in connections that remain undefined beyond the one-month mark. While casual dating remains relevant, daters increasingly reject casual ambiguity, emphasising the need for transparency and mutual intent.

Past Experiences Driving Stronger Boundaries

Nearly 22% of respondents who had previously been in a situationship said the experience shaped stronger boundaries in their current dating lives.

Kirti (30), a social activist, said,

“Being emotionally invested without reciprocation left a mark. I wish I had recognised it sooner. Today, I’m clear about what I want, and if it doesn’t align, I’m prepared to walk away.”

The findings highlight a broader cultural shift in Indian dating—one that values clarity, emotional safety, and intentional connection over uncertainty. As dating continues to evolve, situationships may soon become a relic of the past rather than a modern norm.